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I, the other woman

By: Monica, 07.04.2012, Comments: 21

Hi all known and unknown friends! I wanted to write my story here for a long time. It is really trivial thing to read on the net I have an affair with a married man.

I know that many of you are going to call me names and tell me who terrible is that I’m destroying a family but I am also sure that many of you will support me. We met in the most trivial way via the Internet. It turned out that we had so many things in common, hobbies, interests, personality...

To clarify we both lived in the same city, but we are born in small towns. I didn’t intentionally seduce him, we didn’t plan all of this it just happened. Later on he told me he had never cheated on his wife for the 10 in years in which they were married. And now he assures me that he wanted to divorce her and marry me. I am 29 years old, divorced with no children and he has 2.

He is very kind and considerate, but I'm afraid of all the possible consequences. I want to be with him but I do not want his children to live without a father. I'm afraid that I will not meet his expectations and he will someday leave me. We see each other almost every day, our work is linked.

I do not know what to do. Everything is great between us, but on the other hand there are his marriage, his wife, his children. Early in our relationship he said that he would get a divorce but still he does nothing. It seems to me that I'm not insistent enough.

Tell me your opinion and what you think is best for all of us.


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