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He doesn’t even consider kissing me

By: Mina, USA, 05.01.2012, Comments: 41

I am married for two years now and I am already used to the impatience of my husband, every time we go to bed he wants to make wild sex (Ok, not every day, but 3-4 times a week). But after it’s over he totally loses interest in me – he immediately turns to the other side and falls deeply asleep.

He is not as kind as to kiss me, or caress me – he falls asleep in his half of the bed, as if I don’t exist. And this gets from bad to worse for me.

I am asking myself “ Does he need me at all – or he simply needs the sexual satisfaction?”

I bury my head in the pillow and cry silently.

Sometimes he notices that I cry and opens his eyes in surprise – “ Why are you crying now? What is wrong again? “ – and that’s all.

I tried a couple of times to shorten the distance in bed after the sexual act, to show him that I need caress and tenderness.

But nothing worked – “Go to sleep, I am tired, I need to get up early in the morning cause I have an important meeting” – that would be his way of turning down my attempts to show him that I need him after sex.

I don’t know what to do?

I am afraid to tell it straight forward...

I don’t want tenderness that is obtained by begging!


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