Comments for "Am I jealous or is he a flirt?"

November 10, 2014 • by Thalia

lts not jealousy, your just beıng a 'wıfe' l guess. He should stop flirting or talking to other women around him. A real man wouldnt care about other women but only his wife, he should only care for his wife because thats the way it should be, l mean.. you dont hug other men and talk to them more often than to your husband ? well, lf no then he shouldnt talk to other women. l know how you feel, l felt like that before not once or twice but a millions of times, Dont worry though, He wont leave you you're married. But.. lf you want to make him feel the same way you do, then do what he does. Talk to men, be happy & just smile.. He will understand.. and maybe he'll stop what hes doing and making you feel like dust.

August 15, 2014 • by Ash

baby he loves u but give him space and u also try to be beautiful and smart now he has more options so he is curious to know about more other womens but still he is yours dont do cheap things.

June 27, 2014 • by Peter Martin

Hello,

Okay now this is just one of my
issues that just keeps bothering me it's like taking your lady out dancing to a club. And instead of dancing with her you just sit at the bar and drink while she just gets pissed off and starts daning with every twerkologist male in the room. The point is that everyone flirts from time to time as for a divorce that's just not serious enough to waist the courts time, and to expensive for an hour on the couch with a therapist. Lets just keep it in budget and say that your husband loves to flirt or maybe he just loves woman, but there is a line that you just don't cross but that is between the
couples that are in relationships and they differ depending on the couple. The point is this you need to trust yourself first and then you need to trust your love one as well because you are the one that he comes home to. I think men can be really thick sometimes because they don't want to be clinging, needy, or on lock down whatever the term these days but it is important to let your lady know that she's the lady of our dreams
and the we really care, But that's hard to do when you don't know when it's to much or just not enough the key is communication and learning the differences in the two male verses female. Good Luck!

October 24, 2013 • by TheTruthIs

You are NOT too jealous,his actions are ridiculous! All I can say is he is not conducting himself like a married man - right in front of you as well...this can only mean What does ) He is a player (cheater, liar, skirt chaser) OR he has some other mental problem/issue where he has some intense, need to flirt & seek admiration from other women & ignore you like you don't exist - for what reason, I don't know but I was with someone who did the same thing to me (drove me crazy). Years later I realized he was a narcissist & this was his way of seeking supply while degrading me. In any case, this is not someone I would trust, I can't imagine how he acts when you're NOT around. Divorce him. Read about narcissism please.

July 4, 2013 • by Ajay

K.wat he is doing. U also do same think.if he luvs u thn he wil be jealous...thts all..thts my idea if u agree thn do it

May 12, 2013 • by Shanuri

Hey.your problem is not that serious you acturaly need 2 just sit down with your husband n speak 2 him about how u feel when he is around other woman n he does love u n he also gets jealous when u r by other man.what I also thing you should do is everytime he is by other woman you should go stand by him because he does the same with u when other man are around u so please don't get a divoce just speak 2 hime that's all

April 26, 2013 • by Sandhyarani konjengbam

dats is called luv !!

April 26, 2013 • by Longchamp outlet

Its just well thought out and really fantastic to see someone who knows how to put these thoughts down so well

April 13, 2013 • by Keelia

hello... you have to talk with your husband about your feelings... it is nice to figure it out. ask him why those things happen.. love is sharing of feelings and thoughts..

March 13, 2013 • by Jeevan

i am really touched to read your life, jealous is not a right word to tag your character its concern which any woman will have on her husband and vise verse, your husband is more attracted to women and like to be in multiple relations if he is given a chance and he will not like the same from you, divorce is not the right decision to take because " love does exists ". he will change show him your love and how much you love him and how important he is in your life make him special. if you really love him do this.all the best: a friend from india

February 23, 2013 • by Mahi

girls are selfness plZ don't waist time

January 31, 2013 • by Heart Desire

Soooo touching!... well i think the best way to do is to talk to him and tell him that you are hurted with his habit..you can take him out for dinner any quite place or prepare a nice meal for dinner at home and make it so very romanticly and lower your voice and talk to him wisely,express all your feelings and dont hide anything just speak out!
i hope thats gonna work out for my experience.
good luck Dear!

November 2, 2012 • by Jessie

100% agree to your story sis, bcos the same situation thats goin on with my relationship too, pray & find the answer.. xo

October 28, 2012 • by Mechelle

hello...that was bad he is so numb he doesnt realize how you're feeling when he do that,,maybe he's kind of looking for someone to have an affair with.go talk to him openly

October 8, 2012 • by Dara

i advice you , ithink you will be not affected beacause if you affected with that you will find a bad memories of jealous.

October 8, 2012 • by Dara

i advice you , ithink you will be not affected beacause if you affected with that you will find a bad memories of jealous.

August 8, 2012 • by Kadir Rambel

hi iam sry for that,but realy i had a problem with my wife before.the same problems you have.latter on i found out that she had an afair,i was heart broken,pliz take my adivice ,this guy is trying to have an afair,be kin to him
it may be hard to get him back, but do ur best before it is late..,.gud luck

June 12, 2011 • by Rachelw221

im sorry to here your story. but i see your husband as a game player! he knows what he is doing. seriously i think you should act stupid, or laugh over enthusiastic around other women. when your talking to men and your huband is giving them the hands off, you should turn your back to him, engaging in the other males attention. when your husband finaly explodes...tell him he has being doing the same thing for a long time, and when he stops so will you! job done ;P

June 12, 2011 • by Rachelw221

February 4, 2006 • by Angie

Ok, so same thing is happening to me too!! I thought it was just me....but now i see other couples have similar problems. There are a couple of girls that my BF hangs out with that make me so jealous! I think its because they are good looking and very flirty and he is flirty too. They dont hang out together alot but at parties they are there and sometimes i am there too. They will talk to him for 20-30 min. and within this time its like i dont even exist. If I take him to a party where he doesn't know anyone, I make sure to not leave him alone unless he is already in a conversation with someone else. He just beelines for these girls...other girls too, but they do not make me jealous...however his attitude toward me remains the same...do not exist!!! Once in a while I will leave the party and go "get some air", and most of the time he does notice, however does not come and look for me. He will just say casually, I haven't seen you for a while...and I will say well that's because you looked very busy...he will usually just ignore the comment and continue looking for girls to talk to. I feel like I am the crazy one and am just overly jealous...i keep going back and forth, sometimes thinking its me and sometimes thinking that he is a big pig.
The world would be so much easier if we didn't need men...they suck!!!!!!!!!!!!

January 5, 2006 • by Caroline

Hi sorry to hear things are not well. I've been married for 12 years and have 3 children. Both my husband and I look about ten years younger than we are. We are almost 40, I hope u and ur husband can go to counseling at least as ur last resort. I totally would feel the same way if I were treated like ur husband treats u. I feel that when another person starts showing an interest in the other, if u are married u really should know where ur place is and that is next to your loved one. It's an ego thing when the other girls are talking to him I k now my husband has told me. Best of luck to you. and God bless!!!!!!

December 3, 2005 • by Cassie

Wow!! All feelings are intensified in a relationship so you must really be hurting. Have you spoken to others about this? What do they think? I have the feeling that your husband is insecure and this in turnis creating an insecurity in you that normally would not be there. It's okay to be a flirt, and if he's doing it infront of you then he must be comfortable enough with you to express who he really is. There is an old saying that I like that say's. It doesn't matter where he gets his appetite from so long as he eats at home. You would have to worry if he started acting on any of these behaviours. The feeling that I get is that he is trying to keep his 'options open' and presenting himself the way he may of presented himself to you early in your relationship. This may just be the way he is when he is meeting women, it may be the way he covers up nervousness when seeing someone attractive. Or oa way of letting them know that he appreciates their beauty in treating them the way he thinks they should be treated??? Long shot. However, you should be the jewel in his crown, you should be the most important thing to him. From what you have said you have every reason to feel jealous, and it's hard to admit it when you feel jealous, but you really do need to tell him how you are feeling. It would be so sad for a marriage to end just because you both had miss understandings about each other. I would be telling him upfront afterall what do you have to loose, if you are already considering divorce. Look him in the eye and get him to do the same, have neither of you look away and tell him in your heart of hearts how you are feeling and get him to do the same. The key here is honesty and being honest with one another. If he really is having feelings for other women than you need to know, likewise he needs to know how you feel. All the best.

May 1, 2005 • by Loopy

hey...right now my bf..is exactly the same. He tells me he loves me the odd time, and when he gets his hair cut, a new shirt or anything changes i always notice. He knows when i get my hair cut and is yet to say its nice. Something all my friends do. When we go out. He always say to my best friend she's looking well, but has yet ever to say to me, until some else does, he just looks at me and smiles. But the truth is i would love him to be saying it! Even wen we wer out last night i was waiting for him to come out of the toilets because i had to hold his drink, and we were upstairs away from our friends, a guy approached me and asked what a beautiful woman was doing standing on her own. At that moment he walked out, and i said waiting on this man here. The guy told my boyfriend he was lucky to have me, and that i looked stunning. To whch my bf said as we walked off, o u nearly got lucky there!! I mean a lil bit of a hug or kiss, or i know i'm lucky would have been great. Best thing to do is play hard to get, and if he don't come running..he's best ota ur way. He doesn't know how lucky he is to have you. I'm working that line at the moment. And so far its kind of working. Its his turn to make the effort now...I'm doing it no longer until the time is right. Best of luck sweetie..xx

April 18, 2005 • by Leanne

dam gurl! that story sux, i dont think you should get a divorce! get some couples couciling. that should help a lot. i have a bf right now and he is really great, but if i even see him speak to a gurl i freak! its hard! i dunno wat to do. love is crazy. well i wish you the best of luck and i hope everything works out! good luck!

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