Comments for "I love them both!"

January 22, 2010 • by Jhen04

that's stupid... if you really do love your husband then why are you still letting your feelings got the attention of the other guy, and now see, it's a problem... if you can't control your special feeling to someone, then take away from that person... you already have a husband, then what are you looking for?

February 27, 2011 • by Zorra

This is really uncomfortable. ... Hope everything is fine :)

April 4, 2011 • by Turtle101

The price you will pay will probably be loosing your husband, and respect from your child. It is sad that you are letting a "happy marriage" slip away. Be happy with what you had before. If you are not, then you should get a divorce.

May 9, 2011 • by Pidy

having a loving mariage is sth great,u shouldnt let your self get close to someone and especialy a man that u may feel sth in the end.im not saying u cannot have friends its just that sometimes u shold have some limits.u cannot have 2 men at the same time forever,u gotta decide what to do,its not a game they are human.

May 17, 2011 • by Kyiem5

i think you should choose between the 2 of them. if you love the other guy so much then divorce your husband but if you love your husband that much you need be faithful to him. let go of the other guy. pray for it. it's better that your family will stay intact and happy. you might not feel guilty of it now but someday you will say 2 yourself that "only if i stayed true to myself then maybe i'm not suffering right now." you can't serve 2 master at the same time you know. you always need to choose between the 2. be true to your feelings and pray for what is best.

May 17, 2011 • by Kyiem5

June 21, 2011 • by Teddy

I can tell you that it is not a happy marriage because if it was you would not be going through this situation. Stop thinking about yourself only, think about your 7 year old, think about how it is unfair that you are having an affair at your husbands expense. I'm not saying that you dont deserve to be happy, but not at the expense of an innocent child and a loving husband. PLease as much as you don't want to, get a divorce and let your husband be happy.

July 10, 2011 • by Mangi

I siimply don`t understand why it happens as I am also a Victim betrayal from my Wife. I know how painful it is . My sincer advice you is you need to decide on one Man .Atleast by doing this you will not be ashemed of yourself one day. So Sister Time to Decide.

July 20, 2011 • by Abhi

I understand what u feel.
My girlfreind felt the same. Its true that u love both but u have to choose one. I would say that be with the man who respects u. But if u really love ur husband then u should be with him, because u were happy as married. Marriage brings a lot of responsibilty. Your husband understands you, but u have not seen days as the wife of other person.

My girlfreind left me, but latter discovered that she is not as happy with other guy as she was with me.

Again she left him but she didnt come back to me because the guilt was always there in her mind.
and Guilt is the worst feeling in anybodys life.

I really feel sorry for u
But i think u can be happy with one. Just share and cry with whoever you are be free.

Hope everything will be fine.

August 29, 2011 • by The Tiger

I can't imagine what was the idea when you have done this thing, you are married, have a child, and have a live that any women wishes.
In your work, you will not only destroy your house, but destroy the man's house too.
Thank God for what you have, and try again to maintain your house

November 30, 2011 • by SLIMDELI

Dats so pathetic,get mr right so no regrects.One is best!

January 13, 2012 • by Lava

"No man can serve two masters" You better be faithful to the husband God has given you. God gives the best so don't lose it.

February 28, 2012 • by T-baby

you cannot love two men at the same time,you are definitely lusting after one of them and i do not think you have a happy marriage at all.
The best thing is for you to stick your husband and shower all of your love on him

April 15, 2012 • by Ms. Optimistic

I have been reading this article and I couldn't help but think back to when I was in that same situation. It's hard to love two and even harder to keep them both. I know how you must feel but think about it, is it worth losing that foundation that you and your husband have. For him to know and is still there speaks volume.....Love the one you chose and let love, love you back. Life has its own crooks and turns and along that ride we have to seek out the good and bad. Even the things that hide behind shadows are revealed when we least expect it.

April 19, 2012 • by Kamal

All you did so far is wrong.i think you are mother fucker:)and your mom was also doing this with many people whom she met.my advice for you is you better die unless being in the world with fucking thoughs:)plz you go and die yourself bitch:)

April 22, 2012 • by Ganesh

loving two men in this present world is very complex. There is no special rule for men alone. All the best. Try to solve the problem quickly

May 14, 2012 • by Angeleyes

You should NEVER judge someone and will never completely understand until you walk down the same road. WE all think we would never do things we see other people do that we think are crazy and horrible, but truth is WE DO. Things happen out of our control. If you are not happy then you will most likely find happiness elsewhere. I am here to say YES you can love 2 men at the same time. You care deeply about them and you don't want to hurt either but we all know in the end someone will get hurt and there will be many tears having to let one go. Everyone deserves to be happy and treated with respect. Sometimes in life we need to remove ourselves to look inside the box to see a clear view. No matter what you decide it will hurt like hell. I wish you well.

June 12, 2012 • by David

u have no morals..ur a pig

June 19, 2012 • by Myso

OK, I know this is a really old post, but WOW the people who responded to this have no clue what human relationships are all about.
Go read the book Sex at Dawn, and you will understand that what you are feeling and experiencing is completely normal. In fact, it's biological. If you really want to have a deeper kind of intimacy with both your husband and your lover, then I suggest you work with a relationship coach who specializes in polyamory. Good luck, and ignore all the nay-sayers and critics who do nothing but judge.

August 23, 2012 • by Fuck You

What the fuck is wrong with you, you're cheating your husband and your son, what kind of person does that>?

September 1, 2012 • by Djkhalidi

if you are dumbfounded at who to be with, choose the second man because if you really loved the first one, you wouldnt have fallen for the second one

September 25, 2012 • by Shan

there are really existing situations like that, for me you should do what is right, for your child's sake and for God's sake, you may not save ur other love but u may save God's love for u and especially your soul.

September 25, 2012 • by Shan

October 20, 2012 • by Tiko

if u have really loved ur husband u wudnt have fallen for the second guy.

November 8, 2012 • by AlfI

Hw cn yu cheat ?? You hv a daughter ..u gotta need to decide whom yu love ..n wid whom yu want to spend d rest of ure life ..u can't get dem both ..sit back ..relax .. Think n den make a decision listen to what ure heart says .. Good luckk

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