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Dear readers, I want to share my story and get your opinions, which will help me see things from a different angle. I met him eight years ago – we used to be colleagues. He was married, but he... Back to text

Peter Martin

June 27, 2014 • by Peter Martin

Hello

When does a person find the courage to move on with their life, or how long does one try to love someone when that love is not given in return? how do you explain to your children that you will always love them even when the other partner is the one that has broken your heart? The truth is that you do your best to love them unconditionally and at the same time help them to love their father without competeing for their affection or making the hurt you feel for their father bleed into them having to choose sides?
You deserve to have a life filled with love and being loved by someone who can give you the desires of you heart and at the same time create a new family, and still love the one you already have not easy to do but can be done. as for explaining what happened to your son, just remember to tell him that in for things to work out it takes two people committed to make it work b e sure to tell your part in the story and as for his father let his father tell him his part and then let your son make his own decisions. the main thing is always talk about the positive things because there is just to much drama on both sides to keep going over who is the reason that you are apart or not together you and your son have your own life to live. remember love is always worth giving it's great when it's returned and sad sometimes to when it's not given in return, But it's always worth giving even if the only one who will ever appreciate it is you, because it's timeless and you get to keep the credit of the choice Good Luck!

Rienie

September 28, 2012 • by Rienie

Hey i am going through the Same situation as you ryt now dont give him second chance make him feel what you felt meh im alredy planning to make him face the consequences of cheating on me.

Ashi

January 28, 2012 • by Ashi

hi, am only 17 but can totally understand ur situation, i really wish i could do sumthing 2 help u, but i will only say 1thing, i av heard soo many stories lyk urs, an plz dont think that by giving him a chance he will change coz he wont, dont think about the futhure yet but thing about the present, u no i think we shoud enjoy evry moment of ur luf, so plz enjoy 2day and think about the futhure when it comz so

SLIMDELI

November 30, 2011 • by SLIMDELI

Second chances are gud but with letting a person know what you deserve.

Voice of reason

October 4, 2011 • by Voice of reason

I would just like to say, that no woman should suffer what you have. In response to how you are going to explain to your son, it will take time for him to really understand, but let me tell you they do. Your son will grow up and have his own life someday, so you need to think about yourself. I know that you feel that the world will end, and that you won't make it, but you will. It is very hard the first year, but it will get better. Just to let you know I know this from experience in life. You'll survive!!!

Voice of reason

October 4, 2011 • by Voice of reason

Hello, I read your story and I would just like to say that nobody needs to live with someone feeling the way you do. I know you want to stay more for your son, because of what they will say or what he will think. Look your son will grow up someday and make his own life and then what! You will have lost all those years trying to be happy with someone who is not worth it. Don't be afraid, the first year yes! it is very hard, but it gets better and you will survive. Trust me you will survive!!!!

Maker

June 1, 2011 • by Maker

Is not easy to trust ur luv one who has done sth not expecting frm him.But my Dear try n give him another chance bcus we r all human n mistakes r inevitable.sty blessed.

Maker

June 1, 2011 • by Maker

Is not easy to trust ur luv one who has done sth not expecting frm him.But my Dear try n give him another chance bcus we r all human n mistakes r inevitable.sty blessed.

Sam

October 9, 2010 • by Sam

I read what you have wrote, you sound like a good woman,i would not mind talking to you... do you live in the USA? This so to speak that this man is bad news for you. email me and i can show my honesty if you can!!

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