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Hi, friends.I thought that I had overcome this. I believed that I got it over and I was going to continue forward. But there are moments when pain clutches me and I miss him….Our relationship lasted quite long considering the... Back to text

Rachael

February 26, 2005 • by Rachael

Girls,
I want to share with you the story of my boyfriend\'' s parents.It was this year when they finally got divorced after more than 10 years of unbearable scandals, cheating and insult. < br / > Anyways, my boyfriend\''s father had had a mistress for more than 7 years. This woman used to call my boyfriend\''s(Jesse) mother and talk dirty or insulting words to her, assuring her that her husband would leave her very soon. Jesse\''s mom had leucemia and these made her state even worse - she was mentally and physically collapsed. It was 4 times she tried to suicide. Her husband was constantly denying that he had another relationship. Jesse\''s mother passed through chemotherapy, hardship and scary nightmares - she started innovative medications and now she is much better but her husband finally confessed about his relationship. They got divorced and now, in his 50s he is brand newly married for a 30 yo woman.But Jesse\'' s mother survived.Her strenght and spirit give me hope that women can be strong and independent even in such extreme situations, having passed through such pain and misery ! My advice is : never lose the courage to leave first and always consider the way out a possible one...
Best, Rachael

Jen

April 30, 2005 • by Jen

just lead your heart lead you to make your decision

TSHERING

April 26, 2006 • by TSHERING

WELL I AM ALSO GOING THROUGH THE SIMILAR PATH U R GOING THROUGH .........LOT OF PAIN FROM SEPARATION WITH MY LONG TIME PATHNER.YES A PART OF ME HAD DIED I DONT KNOW HOW LONG THE PAIN WILL BE THERE ....WELL I THINK THAT GOING OUT THERE DOING THINGS KEEPING BUSY DOES NUMB THE PAIN.I MISS HIM I WANT TO PHONE HIM BUT I VE DECIDED TO STOP CALLING HIM AS I MIGHT PUSH HIM FURTHER AWAY .................BEST OF LUCK TO U ...LOVE TSHERING

Haven

August 11, 2012 • by Haven

You know what, honestly speaking.. It's you fault. You should not get married if you can't take care of your relationship with your husband. Now that you're regretting of all the things happened you should ask him once and for all. If you love him and you want him back, ask him if he still loves you, an if he still loves you, confess to him your feeling and this time you should give importance the love that surrounds to both of you. And if he says he doesn't love you anymore, you have two choices, whether you will give up or fight for it. and if you're going to fight for him, make sure that he's not yet committed to anyone. Make him fall in love with you if he's still not attached. Wish you luck. ^^

Silky

October 7, 2012 • by Silky

u should be ur husband as he is the one who ius in ur life it is said that let ur love go if it is meant for u then at any cost he will be ur but that guy whom u loved never returned so it uis better to forget him

Eillem

October 10, 2012 • by Eillem

ur story is very sad. But i think you made the right choice, cntinue buildn relationshp with your husband. In the end his the one u chose

Swetanshu

December 18, 2012 • by Swetanshu

I think u should be with ur husband as now u r in relationship with him..Your lover now can't be ur destination as going with him may many people as ur parent,ur husband and his family.You must respect everyon's feeling becoz it is the most important thing in this world.

Skkrish

May 19, 2013 • by Skkrish

Bettr to live wit ur hubby .. Leav d persn whm u lovd .. Lov ll brk aftr som days.. Husbnd wif relation cannt brk forevr ! ..

Shruti

July 4, 2013 • by Shruti

hi I really lv him but he broken my hrt .I totally brkdwn. I don't kw how tackle to myself .he did very bad to me .he left m before two yr ago but still I unable to forget him .just bcoz I love him very much nd I don't kw how sud b forget him.and from last two yr I didn't a accept any guy just bcoz I love him.he was greedy we engaged .he spoil every thing .and I hate u.

Shri

July 12, 2013 • by Shri

that person broke my hurt nd distroy every thk in my life i found i guy he loves me a lot bt i m unable to accept him

Chi

July 13, 2013 • by Chi

Dis is life live good nd rember sweet memories nd takn a very good decision

I

December 16, 2013 • by I

watch ANNEKARENINA MOVIE, i feel it can be helpful.

Sneha_y

April 2, 2014 • by Sneha_y

oh its so sad to hear this .. bt I appreciate ur decision, you took the right step :) I can understand your pain, im with you, dnt wory, time will make you forget him, not completely bt maybe partially. God bless you

DeeWRECKtor

July 22, 2014 • by DeeWRECKtor

that is true you can love two person at the same time. when you have to choose who among them it's like choosing between the Right half of your heart or the left half your heart. both seems to be special but what you have to do is decide which is best you did it correctly as you promise in front of god that "till death do us part" make it happen. be responsible and let fate do the rest.

Ashu

October 9, 2014 • by Ashu

I am on the same boat as u r in. She recently got married. But the pblm that our love cudnt reach destination was bcoz my family was not ready not accept her. So I gave up my love for my family. But still we were in contact. But 2 day ago she got married . I miss her every moment .i don't no its right or wrong bt i wil stay in touch wid her. No matter if she is married she is the love of my life , bt wil also make sure that she wont have any pblm bcoz of me.I know I m getting selfish here bt the thought of not seeing her is very dreadful. All those sweet memories keep me alive n make me feel near to her even though she is gone. I think you should also be in touch wid him . Bcoz every thing is fair in lv n war.

Blueeyez

January 4, 2015 • by Blueeyez

Girl I understand how you feel I am going through the same thing

Ancy thomas

January 17, 2015 • by Ancy thomas

Hey listen to ur Heart.. U hv complete right to be happy.. Bt u Dnt have any right to hurt any one.. If u left ur other man... Then leave that story there itslef... Dnt make ur life more mess up... Don't be under dpresion... It ain't gona help u.. Find a way out.. And believe me girl whatever decision u tuk its a right decision... Try to live a new life...

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