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i m a mature 38 years old male. 2 months ago i met a woman on a chat site.we began to talk everyday.i saw her via cam and she saw me too. we bothe fell in love with each other.but... Back to text

A bit sad

October 8, 2014 • by A bit sad

i am in almost the same situation as you. the difference is that i am 21 and he is 49. we love each other since 2 years. we are just together. we know we will have to part in the end. and the more time we stay together, the more painful it will be to leave. yet we are together. just to make as many memories as we can. i love him and i kniw he loves me, more than i can ever imagin. we wont part until it is an absolute need. i love him. he means the worls to me.

Riya

October 2, 2014 • by Riya

I think u have to forget that woman and tell u r partner about her..coz Its Means U r Playing With u r Partners feeling

Khalis Mab

August 25, 2014 • by Khalis Mab

Dude Spelling

Jh0y

July 5, 2014 • by Jh0y

thumbs in

Islandgirl

February 19, 2014 • by Islandgirl

I think if you truly love her and she truly loves you your love for each other will be strong enough to weight until both your children are old enough to understand divorce. That wont be till they graduate btw. If you split your family's
apart now in the long run you will both suffer for it.

Misshim

November 4, 2013 • by Misshim

so sad to be in this situation...

Sharpay

October 21, 2013 • by Sharpay

yes..i was a victim to of that certain insanity.You might think of 80 by 20 relationship...80 is your wife cos no one can replace her and 20 with that woman..but come to think of it...you choose the 20 you lose 75% of your life.So wake up my dear.

Slu

October 6, 2013 • by Slu

i luv u sabin

Laura

September 25, 2013 • by Laura

Yes, m also da same situation.i dont want to lose my family aswell us my love, iam prayng god to take away my life.i dont want to cheat my love.m loving him truly

Hani

August 12, 2013 • by Hani

i read other advices i think they are true for one moment just think obout your kids or your wife .plz forget her. If you now say i cant, your wrong, just try it for yor kids, the woman which you talked about it, she isnt a thrusted woman.blieve me dont destroy your children\'s life, im a persian guy, and i cant undrestand english very well, sorry if i had some mistakes, i wait for good news, if you make mistake you have only your self to blame

Reader

May 31, 2013 • by Reader

even if you had the possibility of marrying that woman and iam sure that sometime again there will be the possibility of falling in love with someone eles. what can insure that this will not happen again ?

Me

May 10, 2013 • by Me

Mate, it's one or the other. If you are lacking something in real life and seeming escapism through another girl then I'd be asking what it that is pushing you away from your real family?

Weigh up what you really want and choose a direction. It's not likely to be sustainable keeping the charade going. It's going to end in tears unless you make a decision to go one way or the other. That's at least fair to everyone.

There's no rules regarding love but unless you think you can all live together under the one roof I'd suggest choose which team you're going in to bat for and go for it.

Psyche

November 25, 2012 • by Psyche

Im still curious why guys fall for another while they are married. as for your problem maybe yous should stop your virtual love.

Naomi Nissy

October 23, 2012 • by Naomi Nissy

If u truely lv ur family i advice u forget about ur relationship wit dat woman so dat u don't bring conflict.

Hamed

October 15, 2012 • by Hamed

As you said it's just a virtual love. You can't ruin your life for some one who has no commitment to her family. What if she deserts you afterwards and love some one else.I want you to think rationally.
Hope you good life next to your family.

Dani

September 4, 2012 • by Dani

Hey bro,,we can love two persons at the same time but not in the same degree.you should choose who weighs more,then leave the one behind..don't fish in the two rivers,it's bad..

Dani

September 4, 2012 • by Dani

Hey bro,,we can love two persons at the same time but not in the same degree.you should choose who weighs more,then leave the one behind..don't fish in the two rivers,it's bad..

Truthatknowns

September 2, 2012 • by Truthatknowns

Its not worth destroying what you have at home.

Babu

August 20, 2012 • by Babu

Your love is only in your minds.keep it like that and dont let go far.Make up your mind to stop the affair go beyond that because if you meet and start living together your life will be a failure and you will lose each other.

Guest

July 31, 2012 • by Guest

I read your story.I don't know why you both fell into love if you had already married before.It seams look like that you both were not happy and satisfied with your life partner or else may be u were satisfied and happy and in starting you were using the site to pass your own time through taking but just b'coz u both were started understanding each other well while u're actual life partner was fail to do so in their busy shedual or attitude. Well anyways. Yes it's true... love can be happen in any time any where so i don't think it's bad at all but that you have a full family in present too so it's wrong.I'll suggest only 1 thing you both have a family and own children too ya u can get married with each other if you had been lossen ur partners in past life.But sorry i had to say yes you must to keep away of yourself from her just for your kid's bright future b'ocz u're not only a man u're a father of your own kids too if you will lose your family just for recent love you will lose family as well as repect in your kid's eyes forever. So find a way that will help you both to keep away to you each other.And if you will think to opt divorce option or any crime to do just for having your present love then god will never forgive you ever.As already you have done a mistake ya by natural it happens but it's in reality it can't be accepted as good you know it well. So look your kids eyes they are very innocent so plz don't ruin their life for your love. And i know and believe me your this kind of sacrifice will bring you forgiveness from god And this time only your more love concern for each and every family members your responsibilities that you have been forgotten in your love can help you to do so.If your a true person then sure And God bless You and God help you ...

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