Comments for "True Love truned into nightmare"

July 10, 2014 • by TZ

Do these people actually try to write like that or it's just natural to them.

June 30, 2014 • by Boity

i knw what she feels; she is in love with u n dont wnt 2 lose u.my boyfriend cheated on me n tells me lies.he spent most of the time on his business.i alway call him,check his phone.all that its because i love him so much n i dnt wnt 2 lose him n i knw wat am doing is wrong.she need ur attention n 2 asure her thst u love her n only her.just sit her down n talk abt it

June 27, 2014 • by Peter Martin

Hello James,

Let me start by saying that it great that you have accomplished a lot and that you are on the right track when it comes to what you want out of life and who you want to spend the rest od your life with. There are some things in life that you have to be able to keep in balance in order to maintain a quality of life and be happy. Now let's deal with husband and wife Issues being in love with someone requires commitment from both partners, love, trust and respect for each other. It Is said that we teach the ones we love how to treat us, and how you start a relationship is the way that you need to maintain it so that it last. Let's look at some of the variables I don't have much detail but this is my response based on your letter. It seems to me that while you where dating there where choices that you made that put her first in everything that you did, you had the time to spend with her, at times family and friends became secondary or completely obsolete. These where settle choice that where very intentional, But you didn't have the time to notice because you where busy building a career or just decided to overlook certain things because you felt by accomplishing those things it would complete building a life together with the one you love. The issue is that somewhere down the road or in the past while you where dating there where some unresolved issue and the one you love has been hurt before or going through something in her past that has caused her to see a pattern, or maybe it just she has been around drama that would cause an alarm to go off though there maybe many reasons for this change. the main thing is that she has lost her self confidence, and probably worried that you have become so successful without her that she is insignificant or not important. Let's see new career, more hours at the office, new car new girl another woman perhaps. The thing is something has caused her to start calling you everyday and checking up on you, and maybe while at an office party or meeting some or your friends who are women she may have felt something that caused her to go in panic mode. here's the deal how often do you spend time together since you have been married, took her out on a date, or just out of the blue called her to let her know that she was on your mind and you wanted to tell her that you love her. when was the last time that you spent a moment with just the two of you without worrying about any interuptions or just sharing your time with other people. If any of these questions make you say Hmm.... You have a point! then you have another woman in your life my friend it's called a career and she's alone competing with what she thinks is another woman because you know longer have the time. Now that her side of the story now let's be real for you as well you have just learned something about the woman that you chose to fall in love with but you have also learned something about yourself too. because you are asking if you should stay with her or move on which tell me just a few things as well you see in my world it takes two people to make it work and it also takes to people that can cause it to collapse now the choices may vary along the way on different paths but they are still choices. Now the very Idea that you are asking if you should move on tells me that there is already someone you have your heart set on which is why she is checking your phone and calling you every day, and after writing this to you now for all you know is that I may be her writing this to you now! ( just kidding my friend the truth is that I don't know you or her) I only know when a man is asking advice on what to do it's because he has made a decision about something and he just need to justify that action. well my friend I can't give you permission to let your love one go only you can do that and live with the choice. But what I can say is this It takes a real man to teach a woman how to love, and a real woman to inspire a man to love and for those out there that are wondering about the choice of words between teach and inspire to love they are both interchangeable Good Luck!

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February 15, 2014 • by Sim

I think al gls fear loss to real lv.nd ur wife is one of them.so giv the tim to ur honey.u r lucky u r wid the ur lv atleast.

September 12, 2013 • by Saminu harisu

My name is saminu my father's name is harisu i'm 23 years of age i dnt even knw from where i started my story,But let me start since i met my unforgettable love.i remember 1 day i met 3 girls on the way then i aproach 1 of them,her name was suwaiba nura she is kind and beautifully with tym i started loving her is when i met dem and said hello for them,suwaiba she is the only 1 who replyed 2me she say "hi" with beautiful smile,She great me and i great her too,4this tym i fall in love with suwaiba directly i told her that i fall in love with her,she accpt my love after 6 mnth we ar 2getter and we loved each other,then suwaiba starting doing bad things she kept me away 4rm evrything and everyone also she did'nt allow me 2 met my frnds and others people.i have.just sacrificed my life 4 her.but she does not care, she do everything she like.i have remember one day she told me something about har own problems the reason why suwaiba doing this to me is that i love her somuch and i was afraid losing her i can't live a minute without suwaiba's on my mind,she loves me like i loves before,but nw she does nt love me,this is my litle story pls advising me hw i can solve my problems?

August 13, 2013 • by Rayne

Well the thing is James, I can understand why she is doing that. My father works a lot and well my mom was never like that but then it turns out that he was having an affair, all the time we thought he was working, he was seeing his mistress, so I think you just need to assure your wife, giver her a grand romantic gesture, make sure she knows just how much she means to you but you also have to tell her that she has to trust you.

June 29, 2013 • by Vinod

problems are common:)

June 9, 2013 • by Neva

My suggestion is, have patience n y ur wife is so suspicious is that she loves u so much that she is afraid to lose u...and show her dat she is ur No.1 lady: not by words but by action

May 21, 2013 • by Grid

hi james,i think you should talk to her. clear things,let her tell you her feelings and why she act that way. if you think she's being unreasonable and dont trust you then maybe its time for you to take an action but you think first.,you should trust each other,one way of showing your love to someone without it it's no good at all..

January 31, 2013 • by Heart Desire.

I totally agree with Mr Quilon

November 27, 2012 • by CHA

she is too much.. give her a lesson... or tell her that no matter how she's strict to you. if you want some fun outside.. she can't do nothing....

November 20, 2012 • by Marvel

James i knw ur a good man,bt as a wife also i knw the feling dt ur wife is acting bcuz i used 2 do dat and act lyk dat..dat is normal bt being too much is abnormal..ryt?so dnt gv up on pryng dt she wl realize hw lucky she was 2 hv u..

October 17, 2012 • by Mr Quilon

Dear James, what you done through this article is a one side argument. You describes little and leaves much. You said this from your point of view. If your wife is asked, the story will be different.You write repeatedly "i sacrifice", what sacrificing you have done?. Your parents are with you even though they had gone through some physical discomforts. Understand that your wife is human and she also have parents. They raised her with love and passion. Think that why you fall in love with her?. What in her attracts you?. Don't make her life miserable. Don't go behind money and positions. spend some time with her. go home early every day. give her an outing at least once in a week. may god blee both of you.

October 7, 2012 • by MT

For wat i can say is that woman is ment 4 u that is real&pefect love

September 17, 2012 • by Ali

am ali and 28 years am dating a girl she is 25 years. I love her so much and she do love me too.she always tells me every thing her life if someone try to date her. we wil have get married nover 20. 2013 but sometimes i feel she is too lazy and low comment and i dnt want to hurt her feeling. So Plz shld i give up ? Ur advise is best. .

September 16, 2012 • by Rose

dear james, it's time to have patience. Just try to make her understand u. Give her time and feeling that she's most imporant in ur life. She calls u to know whr u r, instead u must call her whenever u r free to ask her what she's doing, how her day is going and etc. These r small things but can help u alot. A wife just want husband's attention not more than that.

September 9, 2012 • by Kemite

Pls dont send d wif away bcoz we gals du dat alwaz 4 our husband as 4 me i du du it 4 my boifwend pls gentle

September 7, 2012 • by James

Thanks, she can't do this to me. After all i have done and sacrificed, well, i dont loose anything for saying the truth. But till now i have not had any illegal relationship for her to act and doubt me so much. My life has turned hell

September 6, 2012 • by Mye

i dont think it was a night mare but merely being possisive. She's still worth . Maybe you just have to go on a vacation, just the two of you , no phone calls or disturbances while you are with her, to let her be assured that she is that important to you. Then you talk to her gently about your current roles and responsibility at work that is on you but remind her that there is nothing personal on it. Be patient, youve sacrificed a long way, i believe it will still work out. spend not just quality time with her but if you can, more time with her. be a good example in being gentle and she might do the same in the long way. Remeber- TRUE LOVE is patiend and kind (1 cor, 13:4-8) cheers!

September 5, 2012 • by Lala

Hi James, if her behavior still the same, and she couldn't understand you then it's about time to let her go. You're relationship is lack of trust. She never trusted you at all. You're so pity2 James. There's a girl who deserve for your love. Life is too short, be happy :)

August 24, 2012 • by Prathi

dear fren, i know how it feels.. Being a girl my self i can analyze both from ur side as well as ur love's side.. I don n cant say if either of u r wrong but i can tell u 1 thing.. Never move on, let da situations become worst don move on.. Stick to the person n don let anyone point u out n say 'ur choice was wrong..' v r not laptops or phones to change when worn out or bored or troubled.. V r human wit feelings.. U may move on.. But wat if u miss her later? Wat if u get a worst person after her? Wat if u want her back wit all her mistakes n she doesnt want to come back to u?? Do u want to make life more miserable?? I hope no rite!!! So plz try n talk to her.. There could be a situation in both ur lives where she trusted u n u cheated her which she came to know about.. Like u must've moved a little close to anyother girl n lied to her so she is doing all dis.. Mind u, she also loves u n dats de only reason she is trying to be possessive.. If nothing is wrong from ur side, may be she needs to realize dat u only love her in life n no one else.. Plz don think dat dis is gyaan session but trust me love can never be forgotten.. God bless u both

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