Comments for What should i do?!!
November 14, 2014 • by Mayya
November 14, 2014 • by Aadarsh bhai
June 26, 2014 • by Peter Martin
First of all life is full of great opportunity so you are to precious to end it when the world needs your inspiration. I don't know if you are a college student if you are then maybe it's time to start living on campus, Jobs can be very hard to find so sometimes you have to move away in order to live.
It's a hard choice when you are just starting out in life, the main thing is to have support if you have other family members you can spend time with them. if it's just you and your father there are places you can go church shelters, homes for abused women etc... even social services can help the key is research. I hope this helps the other thing is I know fathers can be strict sometimes , but there is also another problem the reason is the reasons why we are strict is because we love you so much and never been taught how to express it or hold on so tight until it's taken away or just leaves. The answer is communication, trust ,love, and patience.
April 22, 2014 • by Cool beans
February 28, 2014 • by Praths
August 28, 2013 • by CommonSense
Advice number 1: Please do not listen to the idiots who are trying to give you stupid advice you do not need. Most of these guys have no clue as to the crap they are talking about.
2: If or when you are able, look up on the internet support groups or people who can help you through this. Always remember you can do anything you put your mind to and stay true to your hopes and dreams never give up!
July 2, 2013 • by Rup
July 2, 2013 • by R.G
April 28, 2013 • by Saifu
December 20, 2012 • by Labida
November 22, 2012 • by Hlehle
November 2, 2012 • by Vrinda
Your friend.
October 20, 2012 • by Sade
you can always count on them....well the sooner you grow up ther sooner you take your self serious
September 23, 2012 • by Avinav
September 9, 2012 • by Prit
August 18, 2012 • by Romeo
Why don't you consider fasting on water only. If you cannot do that because your father gets in the way (because mine does), do it in secret. Fast for 3 days straight on the weekend.
If you cannot do that or don't feel like doing it, consider reading the words of Jesus and obeying them, the words only (not the story). Listening to tape won't help audio bible will Not help you. You are Not at that stage yet. Take a pen and while reading, write down anything that comes to your mind.
If you can do both, fantastic. fast first- read right after. Reading alone, will take you a long time.(please do not go to church, you are wasting your time)
These things have purpose. They are meant to change your heart so that you may begin to love your father more and care for his values. In that way you will have much wisdom and understanding yourself, your limitations, your father's attitude. Most people mean to do go, but their attitudes are bad because they are rotten to the core. But if you love your father, you will understand him better and obey him in such a way that he can't possibly speak against you EVER AGAIN (that is wisdom), because what you are really doing is obeying God, not your father since he proved himself to be unworthy of lovingly instructing you, caring for you, and protecting you but instead he became the enemy. On the plus side, he will learn from you as well and love you maybe for the first time.
But if you give up and run away, expect your children to do to you as you've done to your parent. What goes around comes around.
Now there are some clothing, we shouldn't wear anyway. Personally, I only knew how to get dress only after meeting with Jesus, and especially wearing fitted clothes like a gentleman should. You really should not follow the latest trend in fashion, it will reveal your poor taste, elegance,etc. and turn your into a sheeple.
There is something you should remember. Most parents lived their youth as it pleased them. So they have a sloppy character when it comes to certain things and are incapable of appreciating the values of the little things (often necessity) or may even belittle them altogether. Your father most likely like mine, didn't spend five years of their youth thinking about what kind of father they would want to become and training themselves to be such honorable figures. No, they were concerned about their belly, pride, women and more belly/career. So don't expect any change from your dad. Soon or later, God will remove you from that household when you have become someone worthy. Think of it as graduating from HS to college.
About 3 weeks should be more than enough to change your core personality and your views/judgement about life, if you follow my advice. But make sure you keep your friends/distractions away for that time period. They can't help you, they can't even help themselves. How would they help your heart?
April 4, 2012 • by Manisha.dwivedi
March 16, 2012 • by Nansi
2.Stand up to your Dad he need to know your opinon.
3. If that doesn't go well then your going to have to live through it and you will grow stronger and have better standrands man-wise.
4. The future can be very beautiful. Why would you not want to get to it?
February 1, 2012 • by Mara
January 18, 2012 • by Rachel
October 19, 2011 • by Sultan
Do one thing first just complete your studies and search appropriate job for you. One day your family will be proud or not i don't know but you will be proud of yourself.
-humayu