Comments for When there is no way out... you start looking for a way in
March 14, 2005 • by Leese
March 15, 2005 • by Rachael
I want to share with you the story of my boyfriend's parents. It was this year when they finally got divorced after more than 10 years of unbearable scandals, cheating and insult.
Anyways, my boyfriend's father had had a mistress for more than 7 years. This woman used to call my boyfriend's(Jesse) mother and talk dirty or insulting words to her, assuring her that her husband would leave her very soon. Jesse's mom had leucemia and these made her state even worse - she was mentally and physically collapsed. It was 4 times she tried to suicide. Her husband was constantly denying that he had another relationship. Jesse's mother passed through chemotherapy, hardship and scary nightmares - she started innovative medications and now she is much better but her husband finally confessed about his relationship. They got divorced and now, in his 50s he is brand newly married for a 30 yo woman. But Jesse's mother survived. Her strenght and spirit give me hope that women can be strong and independent even in such extreme situations, having passed through such pain and misery! My advice is: never lose the courage to leave first and always consider the way out a possible one...
Best, Rachael
March 30, 2005 • by Renee
Im going threw something like what you are iv'e been with my son's father for 6 years and he was my first love.It was so bad that he denyied my son for along time and when my son was born he was very sick and he turned his back on us but you know what I forgave him thinking that thing was going to get better.Then he started cheating on me.Im only 24 years old my son a i is now living with him because I have no where else to go.out of 7 days in a week he's home twice.I tried to leave before and he found me and he beat and told me if i leave he was going to kill me what im i to do? He do not let my family come visit me.I need a way out so i know what you mean.
September 10, 2010 • by James
September 9, 2012 • by Navya
I am sorry for what you are going through. My husband just ended a 3 and a half year affair.
He chose to stay with me. The crazy thing is..there is no trust left. I think to myself what the heck am I doing with this man? He is a liar and a cheat. I feel as though I don't even know him.
Think about that before you decide to accept your husbands affair. Everything changes.
Take care of yourself.