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Hi, friends… This letter is written by a boy who doesn’t know what to do because he is afraid of losing the person he loves. I’m only 19 but I’ve been confronted with many things in life. Last year... Back to text

Kimkashi

December 10, 2014 • by Kimkashi

u gota move on and forgot bout her i no im i litel l8 but stil i wuz in the same puziton u r in but w/ a guy cuz im a girl but jus leeve het

Tanzie

July 30, 2014 • by Tanzie

hey I think you should leave her n not be selfish...the women has a family.. you wouldn't want to destroy it...think of the child...I'm sure it'll hurt n all BT its da rite think to do..you'll fall in love again some day with the right person n without having to hurt or destroy anything

Chris

July 1, 2014 • by Chris

My friend you need too stop seeying her because she is maried. But if you have a way that you can get too her then you do so but you net too be cerfull very very cerfull my friend thancks..

Anu

February 8, 2014 • by Anu

There's one thing for sure...if u love someone.Nothing else shud cum into ur mind.Obvio..u shud stay...age and son...these factors do not even exist. I think that it is apt for u to marry her instead. Besides u shud be confident enough about ur choices in life. Love is simply not about affections,easier to do things, rather it is about feeling the pain for even simplest things in life, getting the responsibility, making her happy. U should rather be on your knees asking her to marry you(not having a dilemma about "accepting her son" or age on the first place).

Sharon

February 22, 2013 • by Sharon

U r stupid .... if not so u would never luv a women who is damn older dan u>>>

Merlyn

February 14, 2013 • by Merlyn

listen dear its been atleast taking me a long time to tell wat u shud do
i knw ur feelings for her coz even i had a bf
as per me its betta u try and tell ur sweet heart to move away from her coz she married and already setteld in life and you just cant think of breaking her married life if u love her u must want her to be nt have a big prob bcoz of her relation plz think over
hope u take the rite decision

Telz

January 30, 2013 • by Telz

leave her because her son needed her more than you need her..ok?

Ribs

October 6, 2012 • by Ribs

U have 2 challage ur self that u have 2 leave without her khud ki zindagi khud jina sikh lo q dusre k sahare ji rahe ho i hope u will understand

Rashi

August 18, 2012 • by Rashi

Move on dude......she hve already selected wat she want in her life...

Uski yaadein sirf dard deti hai n nthg else.....

Cin

December 21, 2011 • by Cin

I understand you.. All you have to do is ,be happy in your current life now cause everything has a reason that God our Father will saved you against your enemies..you will never stumble if you have faith and trust the Lord our God he will never leave nor forsake you caused he promised..be happy now and for her smile and accept all the things that you experience right now.. and the right time will comes so dont be afraid cause God will catch you.. if you remember her just think that you are happy if she is happy.. thats a meaning of love, that will give you a freedom and set you free for everything.. no matter how hard, if you love somebody you've learned everything.. you get starting already..Be happy!!!..smile everythings gonna be alright!

Ami

December 5, 2011 • by Ami

Hi.........!
Listen bro i wanna tell you one thing only i.e leave her coz it is wr8...... Coz she iz older then you and she iz married nd she had a son also so its better to leave her okey.......?

Bing

May 18, 2011 • by Bing

leave her ....coz u can fnd anther girl better than her

Mizz fabulouz

November 29, 2010 • by Mizz fabulouz

Do,what you think is right.. Don't use your thoughts for your own good,but you should sacrifice ,,life is not easy for us to live like we wanted,,and you know God has a good plan for you,,all you need to do is wait,, coz LOVE IS WAITING .. Don't be in a rush...

Caroline

January 5, 2006 • by Caroline

Hi there, wow that' s deep! I just have one thing to say and that is you are still very young and life goes on! First of all I am speaking from experience. I got married at 19, we were married for 6 years, we had a daughter after 4 years of marriage, then a year and a half later he said he was no longer in love with me! And I thought it was the end of the world, but God has a plan for me and that is to really find my soulmate. And I did, if I had't been divorced I wouldn't have met my second husband, we now have 2 more kids, he has raised my first one like she was his own and her biological father really didn't raise her , how sad. My point is everthing happens for a reason, you might not know it at the time, but good things happen to those who wait. will you really be able to trust her after she leaves her husband? How do you know that she won't do the same thing to you/ Why wasn't she faithful to her husband? And why are you with a married woman? You really need to think about this! Move on there is something else out there four you and, that I promise, that God promises! Just got to believe!!!!!!Take care!!!!

Pain

December 3, 2005 • by Pain

Love is full of pain. You let yourself get to that place so you are vulnerable and it is painfull to leave once you see what is there. What most people don't get is that it's not just THIS person you can feel these feelings with. You can feel these feelings with another person, and someone that has not already got their life sorted (ie children etc). You are in the fortunate position that you can up and leave if you want. You can bear the brunt of a few months of heartache and find someone that is even more aligned with you that you can feel even more love with. Believe me, my first love when I lost them I thought I would die,, I went into depression etc etc, you have to remember that your first love will always feel the strongest, because you've never felt these feelings before, and it will always be the hardest to leave. With another 60 or so years to go in your life, you are at the very beginning. Look around take in the world and see everything that you can be and with that everything you can have.

Pooja

May 9, 2005 • by Pooja

I understand your state of mind but i would still suggest you to move on in life.You're a young boy who has so much to gain--making an identity for yourself is the most important aspect and priority in this age.Everyone in this world needs a loyal and a loving partner but think for yourself are you ready to take-up the responsibility of your girl-friend and her child?Life is always not a bed of roses -indeed Love is a beautiful feeling but you've to be practical in life and do things at the right time.Any relation demands much more than just ''Love'' - All The Best !

Woeful

February 26, 2005 • by Woeful

Come Slowly
by Emily Dickinson

Come slowly, Eden < br / > Lips unused to thee.
Bashful, sip thy jasmines,
As the fainting bee,
\ r\nReaching late his flower,
Round her chamber hums,
Counts his nectars - alights,
\r\ nAnd is lost in balms !

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