Separation

Hello girls! For some time I have been hesitating in which direction to continue my life, and time passes. I hope to hear your objective opinion. Sometimes things are better seen from the side.Well, in short - I'm 31, married for many years, we have no children. My husband is not a bad person - he helps me in the household, he is skillful, he does not raise scandals, he does not beat me. But I don't feel happy. The problem is that his only entertainment is beer, TV, and the computer. We don't go out together, we rarely have...

Hello!I would very much like to share with you and read side opinions. Some time ago I had a relationship with a rather inappropriate man. And before that, I had feelings for another man, as well as he for me, but everything was platonic. However, I always knew we would be together one day.At the end of my relationship with the Inappropriate, I met another man with whom I knew I had no future, but we started dating, and at one point I realized I couldn't stop.We had seen each other for about 2 weeks when he admitted he had...

Lots of lies and that was the end of it all.I wanted to be with him, unconditionally, without depending on anyone. He appeared unintentionally in my life, through my father - he introduced us as they would work together.Everything is very confusing. I feel that way myself. Well, my father introduced me to this man at a disco and introduced him as his future boss. I didn't even know then what would happen and how everything would go. I don't know where he found my phone number, I don't want to ask, but it so happened that we went out,...

Hello.Nearly a year ago, I had an affair with a boy, or rather with a man, who in the meantime continued his relationship with his girlfriend, although he promised me that there was nothing between them, that the thrill was gone. The well-known male nonsense.Indeed, I'm not far from fools either because I believed him. We spent great hours together, sex with him was a real pleasure, the flowers, candles, gifts, and tender words were a real unceasing wind.My eyes were not closed to the truth, to reality - they were just glued. After spending the summer together, I got...

We met about 5 years ago by chance, through mutual friends. We were never close, we met at parties from time to time, but we did not exchange a word. I even remember that at one time he was madly in love with my best friend. I've seen him with a lot of girls and just thinking how much I didn't care!3 years ago, we both happened to be at a party of mutual friends. I don't know how it happened, I really don't know, but he suddenly started paying attention to me and so, imperceptibly, we spent the whole...

Hello,It's very difficult for me to talk about my feelings, and I may not clarify many things, but now I feel very confused. If after reading my story you have questions, ask them, I will answer.Before I start writing, I want to ask you not to be too strict with me - believe me, I feel bad enough, I have realized my guilt, and maybe I am my greatest judge.So, the story is this: I had a boyfriend with whom I was for 9 years. He was the first man in my life, I met him when I was 16...

I hadn't planned to meet him. I was not prepared, I did not aspire to it. I was not dissatisfied. My heart was free of longings, passions, and unconscious pain. Everything was fine.I had agreed with a friend to go out with her on a date with her new goal and his best friend. Double-date, but without expecting me and the other to get closer. After seeing him, it seemed to me that this could not happen. He was my type - gloomy, anti-slimy, anti-pink, but at the same time, a very caring young man who, on top of everything,...

I will try to be as objective and concise as possible. I would like people to respond with meaningful advice, not insults or attacks.I have a relationship with a married man or rather I had because we are currently separated. This has been going on for 3 years now, and in the beginning, he was not yet married but lived with a woman with whom they had a 7-8 year relationship.In one year, my life changed radically. I dare say his too, only the directions were different.Our love was crazy, beautiful, dedicated, wonderful! And this happiness lasted nearly a year....

He's leaving ... I love him so much, we love each other so much. HE is everything, all my energy, HE gives me life. I can't imagine life without him, and now he's leaving. So many memories, events, and everything will end with his departure and nothing will be the same. How can I forget him, it hurts ... How can I forget such a large part of my past, in which he was ?!Nothing will be the same anymore. Every flaw, every minus in his character, in his demeanor, becomes a quality, a plus because I love him. What...

Hello, everyone! I want to tell you my story and ask for your advice - what to do and what decision to make?I got married young (20 years old) because I got pregnant unexpectedly. My husband and I loved each other very much, and when our daughter was born, there were no happier people than us. I didn’t regret anything, I felt wanted, loved, and protected by this man - I had a family!But suddenly, everything started to fall apart, and our marriage turned into a complete nightmare in a month or two. We couldn't stand each other, we somehow...

First of all. I know much of you will say or think that I'm pathetic for falling in love with a guy whom I've never met. But, if you were on my place i think you'd understand. Okay, let me begin. It all started when I downloaded this game on my phone. It's called Party In My Dorm/PIMD. It's a great game though. Okay back to the topic. It was September 7, 2013 when I followed someone on that game. I didn't expect him to follow me back though. But he did. So, every night we chatted non-stop. Even...

Hello readers, This guy am getting marry to used to be my X boy friend's friend & also used to be my best friend's husband. i've known him for almost 5yrs now & we were always closed we does everything together & we had no secret.. he tells me everyting even when he used to had a fights with his wife and i always advice him as a brother & a friend. his wife took him for granted & had respect for him. he always complains about it that he got married to the wrong woman & not the wife...

I tried to forget him much but i couldn't. I dated with another boy ( just outing for lunch and talk ). I had lot of funny talks with my other friends who are boys . But didn't work. He remember himself for me in my tears. Daily i cry for him. I try to be in busy schedule whole day just to forget him. But still i cry for him. I the girl who love my boy the most. I want him. I want his caring and loving heart. I'm not so interested in physical contact....

its was all my fault and now i regret with some confusion. i was in relationship for last three years, and now iam very confused. iam a year older than him by our study age. but we are of same age. before last year when i went to another level to complete my study i met a guy, who really cared about me, than i thought my first loves love wasn't that what i wanted, this boys love was just everything for me. some how but slowly i be-gain forget my first love. then one day the boy who was...

It all started on Facebook ! I was looking through one of my friend's friend list, and I found HIM! I don't know why, but he caught my attention, so I sent him a friend request!! later that day, he added me ! I sent the first message, and he replied !! The only bad thing was that we were miles and miles apart!! :(( well we started by talking as friends, but our feeling grew stronger for each other ! I finally admitted to him how I truly felt, and to my surprise, he felt the same way!! WE...

I thought you were the one. We were together for three years; we talked about marriage and even having kids together. We talked about what we would do if we ever lost each other, and we both gave a part if our pasts to one and other. I hate the way our relationship ended, and it makes me so angry that you think I didn't put in an effort or even care. I hate that after three years, you feel like I wanted nothing to do with you. It makes me mad to know that one argument, after being through...

4 years ago i met a guy,he was all i wanted,i felt in love and i new that he is love of my life...after 2 years we got married,after a year he went to visit his sister in australia,when he came back he came totally different,i would asked him honey wats wrong but he wouldnt say anything...after 2 years marriage he dissaperaid for 2 weeks,i didnt know where he is for 2 weeks,then he called me from australia to tell me that he got married,i was shocked,he divorced me and i didnt knew anything,i remeber once he gave some papers...

Hi am anita . I am 14 years old. There was a boy named siam. I dont know that why i feel good when i am with him. I always wanted to stay with him. Gt was the incident of 2012. One day he came and proposed me. The after 3months i accepted his proposal. It was the most happiest day of my life. Then after 1month 5days i felt that something is fishy on his. I felt that me didnt love me. Then when i researhed on him i got to know that he has 9 more girl...

It all just happened recently..... l m still heart broken and its going to take time,for me to get my self back as I was before all of this happened....ooh! I forgot 2 tell you right now m so messy,twisty & dark also hurt,but besides all this I still have to keep smiling & be happy about what happened. That's the reason I want my old self back who didn't seem to care & was happy with self...... It all started on 2nd of Feb of the year,when I came to college to meet d new friends group of my...

Maybe you're thinking right now why I asked you to write an article on Why I shouldn't be with you, strange though it seems, me too doesn't know why. I was staring at this blank page for 30 minutes and I'm asking myself the question and I really don't know what to write cause to tell you the truth I always wanna be with you and I can't see myself without you but then, I must write an article on "Why you shouldn't be with me?" cause it would be unfair if you wrote one and I didn't cause in...

I was a girl who didn't have any experience in love. Since i was a kid, I always imagined how to feel to be in love. As I grew up my friends have their own ups and downs with it comes to relationship and I was asking myself why I haven't been experience the moments that my friends has. When I was 21 there was this guy I met. He is exactly what i am looking for in a guy. Tall, funny, good-looking and kind. As time goes by, we flirted around and suddenly it just stop. It kept me...

Hi, I am here today to share with you my story, I have been searching for love since I was a kid, I am now 29 years and I was not good in relationship, I am now on my bed writing to you and crying, feeling defeated and angry, wish i can do something to hurt the one i loved just to make him feel what i feel now. I met this guy last year, and he touched my heart very deeply. I was afraid to go on with him because i do not want to be hurt again....

At the tender age of twenty years, I have been lucky enough to fall in love 3 times. Sometimes I think I fall in love too easy. Or maybe I have just been lucky. Or have I merely followed the way I think relationships should go, conducive of media pressures? The reason I bring this up is a recent actualisation of my long oppressed feelings towards a guy, who is relatively new in my life. Warren, a colleague from work, had given me the most emotionally confusing, yet amazing 6 months of my life. Trying to work out what I...

Hi myself Viki. I am 25 year old. I am narrating this story with the message to people who are in love. Its time for me to decide something in life and move on but not able to. I joined a college in 2005 for studying a paramedical course. I was a simple guy who was scared to talk to girls. So spent most of my first year life talking to guys (as its a paramedical course class consisted of 6 guys and 35 girls). In my second year i met a junior named Shh... (i dont want to disclose...