Hello girls! For some time I have been hesitating in which direction to continue my life, and time passes. I hope to hear your objective opinion. Sometimes things are better seen from the side.Well, in short - I'm 31, married for many years, we have no children. My husband is not a bad person - he helps me in the household, he is skillful, he does not raise scandals, he does not beat me. But I don't feel happy. The problem is that his only entertainment is beer, TV, and the computer. We don't go out together, we rarely have...
Hello!I would very much like to share with you and read side opinions. Some time ago I had a relationship with a rather inappropriate man. And before that, I had feelings for another man, as well as he for me, but everything was platonic. However, I always knew we would be together one day.At the end of my relationship with the Inappropriate, I met another man with whom I knew I had no future, but we started dating, and at one point I realized I couldn't stop.We had seen each other for about 2 weeks when he admitted he had...
Lots of lies and that was the end of it all.I wanted to be with him, unconditionally, without depending on anyone. He appeared unintentionally in my life, through my father - he introduced us as they would work together.Everything is very confusing. I feel that way myself. Well, my father introduced me to this man at a disco and introduced him as his future boss. I didn't even know then what would happen and how everything would go. I don't know where he found my phone number, I don't want to ask, but it so happened that we went out,...
Hello.Nearly a year ago, I had an affair with a boy, or rather with a man, who in the meantime continued his relationship with his girlfriend, although he promised me that there was nothing between them, that the thrill was gone. The well-known male nonsense.Indeed, I'm not far from fools either because I believed him. We spent great hours together, sex with him was a real pleasure, the flowers, candles, gifts, and tender words were a real unceasing wind.My eyes were not closed to the truth, to reality - they were just glued. After spending the summer together, I got...
We met about 5 years ago by chance, through mutual friends. We were never close, we met at parties from time to time, but we did not exchange a word. I even remember that at one time he was madly in love with my best friend. I've seen him with a lot of girls and just thinking how much I didn't care!3 years ago, we both happened to be at a party of mutual friends. I don't know how it happened, I really don't know, but he suddenly started paying attention to me and so, imperceptibly, we spent the whole...
Hello,It's very difficult for me to talk about my feelings, and I may not clarify many things, but now I feel very confused. If after reading my story you have questions, ask them, I will answer.Before I start writing, I want to ask you not to be too strict with me - believe me, I feel bad enough, I have realized my guilt, and maybe I am my greatest judge.So, the story is this: I had a boyfriend with whom I was for 9 years. He was the first man in my life, I met him when I was 16...
I hadn't planned to meet him. I was not prepared, I did not aspire to it. I was not dissatisfied. My heart was free of longings, passions, and unconscious pain. Everything was fine.I had agreed with a friend to go out with her on a date with her new goal and his best friend. Double-date, but without expecting me and the other to get closer. After seeing him, it seemed to me that this could not happen. He was my type - gloomy, anti-slimy, anti-pink, but at the same time, a very caring young man who, on top of everything,...
I am 29 years old and 4 months ago I found out that my husband has another woman.My story is very long, but I will shorten it as much as I can. I have been married for 7 years, we have 2 children - aged 6 and 2 and I thought I had the perfect man. It all, in my opinion, started with the birth of the little one - a very sweet, but also a crying baby around the clock. I changed a lot, I was always busy with the children, and also very nervous. Everything irritated me and...
Hello girls. This question has long been ingrained in my mind - does he love me, or...?I will tell you in more detail.We have been married for eight years, but I have recently begun to think about many things, namely, to give them meaning and connect the facts.We got married very quickly - he said that he had been in love with me for years, and I hardly noticed him, (he is a few years younger than me) I felt that he was not the man I had dreamed of, but I thought that I might not find a better...
Hello!I want to share my problem with you. I know that many of you will judge me, accuse me. And they will be right, I myself do not approve of my action, I cannot accept this. In my life so far I have had only 2 relationships, both long-term, and I am 28 years old.I have always dreamed of meeting the right person, getting married, and being happy. I started working at my current job three years ago. A colleague made a strong impression on me, we liked each other, we talked and little by little I started to fall...
Hello, readers of this wonderful net-magazine. I will share my story here, hoping to get some valuable advice from you, because I have no one else to tell it to.I am a 23 year old student and until 3-4 months ago I had a serious relationship with a 28 year old boy. Everything was very good until his bad habits started to prevail. He began to attach more importance to his friends and alcohol than to me. He came home quite late at night, mostly drunk, at least 4 days a week (we lived together for 2 years ).I always...
Hello, here is my story.I am 25 years old and I have had a serious relationship for 6 years. We are even seriously considering marriage, but recently, I don't know why I am constantly thinking about another man. I recently started chatting with a man on the internet, he is a foreigner. He asked me to chat and at first, I didn't mind because I wanted to practice my language (we write in Spanish, I almost forgot it because I don't have time to read books to keep up) and so I decided that this was the perfect opportunity to...
I need to share, and if anyone can tell me where I went wrong?When we met my husband, I didn't want to be involved with him at all. I didn't like him, but for 3 months, he was very insistent. We were both not attached to other people.So, at one point, things started to go great between us. We loved each other and we were happy. After a year and a half, we got married, and after another year a wonderful boy was born to us, who is now 4 years old.I had (and still do) a great job, and...
I am very confused. I don't know what to do with my life. I have been living with the father of my child for 2 years now, everything happened very quickly and unexpectedly.We met at a time when I was seeking solace for my broken heart from great but impossible love. I got pregnant in the third month of our relationship, it came to us like a bolt from the blue. He wanted me to have an abortion, but I already had one and I didn't want to take any chances, I told him that I could look after my...
Hello!It was a beautiful and fresh morning when I saw again the man who had been stealing my peaceful childhood sleep for a long time. I knew I shouldn't like him because he could be my father, but every time I saw his silhouette, my heart would pound and I would tremble with excitement.I couldn't help but feel his interest in me, even though I thought I was imagining it. I tried not to think about him, and the more I tried, the more he kept coming out of my head.The years passed, and this man kept stealing from my...
Hi, I'm Alex! Until 6 months ago I was terribly in love! The girl beside me was beautiful, intelligent, the usual thing that everyone in love finds in their partner, but that's not the problem!I've always wondered and couldn't understand how beautiful girls of modest age fall in love with fat-necked men or old and wrinkled men with fat wallets! But I never thought that I could have problems of this nature! And even more - with my 2 years of love!At a time when everything was fine and we were talking (mostly she) about plans for our common future,...
Two years ago I fell dangerously in love with a man. He was here from another city, but I wanted him to settle here. I won't tell you how we met, it's not that important. I fell madly in love with him, we became very close, we spent 12 hours a day together. Only when we slept were we separated. I gave everything to him, I was really madly in love. We were inseparable together for 8 months, we talked about everything, we did everything together.He was in love with my sister. I'm not going to tell you what age...
I do not write to meet understanding. My only wish is to express my pain, and hopefully, women with the same problem have more courage to make the right decisions at the right time. Because if they miss it, they will suffer much more and will cause a hundred times more pain to others.My story is the banalest in this world - a relationship with a married man. Already a former relationship.It all started 6-7 years ago when I met Him. He was a groom. He and his wife moved into a neighboring apartment. We liked each other right away,...
Hello,I have been reading the stories on the site for a long time, but only now have I decided to write mine as well. I am 21 years old, I have been married for about a year and a half (strange as it may seem). My husband is many years older than me, but until recently this was not an obstacle for us.Some time ago, he began to change, became cold, apathetic, and irritable. Each of my requests was interpreted as a whim and a compromise on his part. Nothing was the same as before. If you're wondering why I'm...
I will try to be as objective and concise as possible. I would like people to respond with meaningful advice, not insults or attacks.I have a relationship with a married man or rather I had because we are currently separated. This has been going on for 3 years now, and in the beginning, he was not yet married but lived with a woman with whom they had a 7-8 year relationship.In one year, my life changed radically. I dare say his too, only the directions were different.Our love was crazy, beautiful, dedicated, wonderful! And this happiness lasted nearly a year....
He's leaving ... I love him so much, we love each other so much. HE is everything, all my energy, HE gives me life. I can't imagine life without him, and now he's leaving. So many memories, events, and everything will end with his departure and nothing will be the same. How can I forget him, it hurts ... How can I forget such a large part of my past, in which he was ?!Nothing will be the same anymore. Every flaw, every minus in his character, in his demeanor, becomes a quality, a plus because I love him. What...
Hello, everyone! I want to tell you my story and ask for your advice - what to do and what decision to make?I got married young (20 years old) because I got pregnant unexpectedly. My husband and I loved each other very much, and when our daughter was born, there were no happier people than us. I didn’t regret anything, I felt wanted, loved, and protected by this man - I had a family!But suddenly, everything started to fall apart, and our marriage turned into a complete nightmare in a month or two. We couldn't stand each other, we somehow...
The story I will tell is known to some, unknown to others, and others may have already experienced it. Sharing it with you, I would like to know if others have been in a similar situation, and how things have turned out for them.And so. I have a relationship with a divorced man of 32 years, and I am 29. We work together in a law firm. I knew from the beginning that he was divorced and had a small child.I fell in love with him, not at first sight, but gradually - he is just an amazing person, extremely...
Hello friends!I decided to write to you because, despite the variety of stories, I never found one that would bring me the answers I was looking for.The case is as follows: I am 24 years old and I have a boyfriend with whom we have been together for 6 years. I experienced love with him, which is rare - strong and emotional, burning. At the same time, he did not hurt me, as in most cases when love is very passionate. On the contrary, he always put me on a pedestal, gave me tenderness and attention, pleased me with everything.I...
