How do you overcome jealousy....?!

by Alba • True stories • Jealousy • • 3 comments

We have been together for almost a year now, I love him very much, but I go too far in my jealousy. I think that I risk losing him with this jealousy of mine and this is the least I want.

At the beginning things were quite different.

When we first met, he had a girlfriend and he lied to me a lot, and to be more precise I will tell you in what way.

At first he told me they are not together anymore. I was gullible, because I wanted to be with him so much that I believed in every word. I should have considered that I don’t know him yet and I "have no right" to trust him...
He lied both to me and her...

After that he left on a youth brigade abroad for 3 months. Before he left he promised that when he comes back no one will stand between us.

He told me he was still with his girlfriend, because she had an abortion and he felt bad to leave her now…

He came back and now everything is as he promised, but I am so jealous, too jealous of everything and everyone...

I am in some kind of hell, I have no minute of peace, I am so afraid to loose him…

I love him...
Please tell me how to overcome my jealousy....?!

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October 28, 2012 • by Mechelle

hi, i can relate to you because my boyfriend was like that before.He was a real flirt and he was known for that...i dont trust him even now but he keeps on having a relationship with me eventhough i quarrel him a lot he's the one who kept our relationship going,,i cant get over from the past i know that you feel hurt bcoz it really hurts.but it's up to u to trust him, just dont expect a lot and be ready. Gudluck

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