Comments for "He Cheated on Me While I Was Pregnant"

September 15, 2014 • by Supriya

No that's not good you feel you are happy without him but the baby can not get a good life you may give love upto your end but the baby future without an father is so turf in the society the society member will speak hell words about your baby so try to convince him be in your hold and settle in life

September 18, 2014 • by Ashi

Hi I dnt feel ur decision is rite to leave him..
Love him so much tht he wud have no other choice than loving u..keep ur love mad n passionate.if u hv thought to spnd life with him so do it.encourage urself everytime n god wil help u..all the best...

September 19, 2014 • by Karthik

The child needs your love. The child is yours as well. And if you leave him or her, the child will be devastated. Allow the child to know who the father is and who you are. Then make a decision for separation if you have to. Don't let go of the child into the hands of a man who lacks your values. But if you think you can forgive and make things work between you and your husband then do it.

September 30, 2014 • by K rose

you know you were the one who said you were insulted, and that you do not trust him anymore. I think that is enough reason for you to leave him, your baby will always be both your child but the fact that he was seeing someone while you where there trying to make sure that his child will be taken care of while in your womb and he has all the time to cheat instead of taking care of you and your child? the fact that he went to your home with "friend" that's a big insult and a slap on your face... your child will grow knowing his father but move on, someday someone will come in your life... a man who will respect and love your child as his own...

September 30, 2014 • by Amit

yes he is cheating but don't mind it is common problem please convenience your husband and friendly relationship make you that is your duty .mostly ladies are busy in child birth and pregnancy period so i think maximum gents are feeling alone remember he don't feel alone.

October 7, 2014 • by Epakarasio

let dem resetle since d man asked 4 padon

October 10, 2014 • by Preeti

I know it’s difficult to accept that it has happened.
First of all give yourself some time and collect answers for following
1. How will you manage yourself financially?
2. He cheated OK.... But when it will come to financial settlement after divorce how strong are you? Are all your financial issues answered?
3. Will you be able to raise your child without any guilt after separation?

It’s not important that you save relationships.... It’s important you save yourself.
Sometimes separation makes things easier for the other one than you.
What options do you have after separation…. How do you plan to live your life?
You divorce/ separate from your partner and he starts a new life….
What about you… You separate and you invest your energy in raising the kid and taking care of your financial requirements ……

If you are sure you are financially stable and would be able to make yourself emotionally stable kick him right now…. But if the answer is No… Then get your thoughts clear….

My basic suggestion is that you should be fine…. Thus give everything a complete thought and most importantly time

October 19, 2014 • by Jaz

every guy cheats
Guys are jerks they cheat on every girl
My advice is if he did this once it could keep happening

October 26, 2014 • by Goldi

the husband not do this good. due to this the life of baby was may be destroyed. now the mother should live happy with the child.

October 30, 2014 • by Priya

I agree with ur decision.. U r right in ur way.. Go for it.. I know u r best mot her and u can b manage

November 1, 2014 • by Light

The fact is, he is not faithful to you. He doesnt love u with all his heart. For the Holy Bible tells us to be faithful to each other. It will be better if u move on your own, because when the SUN set the MOON rises.

November 3, 2014 • by Alex

I am a man. You went through hell to get pregnant, he went along with that and when you were pregnant he cheated on you. That shows an irresponsible, disrespectful, inconsiderate, not to be trusted person. What he did stays, what he said was just talking never to be proved.The least you can do is leave him and forget him. You can tell your child about it. It will help the child be a better person.

November 10, 2014 • by Little girl

I don't think he is the right person for you , but you have to think about your son too , you need to explain to him why is all this happening , I recommend you to go to my website coolteenlife.wordpress.com .

November 16, 2014 • by Shweta

See I know its difficult but if ur husband is really sry than every one disserve a chance if u want.

November 19, 2014 • by Marie

Hi...I understand how painful it is to live a person whom you don't trust anymore. My advise to you as a mother and a wife you must learn to forgive and let go of the pain by asking God to help you. Give him chance to change. While you are in the process of healing be a caring and loving wife and mother, be someone where he will surely regret once he loss you. Don't repeat the mistakes in the past, whenever you remember them PRAY in silence and ask guidance. God will give you peace.

November 29, 2014 • by Sahil

Leave him

December 16, 2014 • by Anon

Everyone here is foolish. I'm a man myself and would not think of straying while my wife is pregnant with our child. It is foolish to think he will change his ways. Leave him, in the end you all will be happier. It's best to raise a child in a loving & trusting family, and staying together for the child will not work out in the end. As long as there's love, your child will grow up fine. From the other people's comments, it looks like they are in the same situation and trying to get you to make the same mistake they probably made. DON'T DO IT. A stray dog will always stray.

December 17, 2014 • by Atanu

Adjust with him for ur baby. Forgot every past experiences. It is also a part of life.

December 17, 2014 • by Atanu

Adjust with him for ur baby. Forgot every past experiences. It is also a part of life.

December 26, 2014 • by Ankit

Hi..dr u have to start your new life with smeother one who would understand the mean of true marrige and lve may be it not so easy bcs many problems have to face and i don\'t know full status so be happy dr sme things in your past prisoned u break that past and opened new ways fr u\'\'

December 29, 2014 • by Someone

Hi it may be a little late to answer but I will tell u. My mom was in that situation too. She was pregnant and I would have a brother so she wanted to get divorced but she didn't because of us.if you have the chance to choose an other man that will really love you and a he can be a great father to your baby I guess it's better to leave him but if not just live for yourself and pay attention to your baby to have a great future and act to your husbent as a friend hope this will be helpful

December 29, 2014 • by Someone

January 1, 2015 • by Heeyy

However true it is, that he has hurt you. You still can't deny your child the privilege of having a father, knowing his/her father.
I have a few friends with only one parent in the picture, some divorce, some separated, some dead, regardless of the cause, these friends have kind of defects.
For example a girl friend never met her father, she has difficulty connecting with the opposite gender. While I have friends whose parent's stayed together for their child, their parents gave them the wrong idea, that friend thinks that their parent's unhappiness is his fault.

Let your child draw his/her own conclusion of his/her father.
At the end of the day, do what you think is best for you and you baby.

But If you decide to give him (Your Husband) a second chance, let him earn it.

January 6, 2015 • by NAMPOX

What makes you happy? go for that no matter what, if you are willing to stay with him then you should 4give him deep in your heart.

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