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Everything started when I least expected and what happened was something that I could never imagine happening to me! I was at a company party! Dancing, laughing, alcohol and right now, everything seems pretty fuzzy. I don't remember everything,... Back to text

Peter Martin

June 27, 2014 • by Peter Martin

Hello Matilda,

Maybe It's just me or are you just confusing lust for love, It's really not about whether you are young or old because relationships are very unique and no one really knows when it starts or end few things are certain, can you love someone a for a life time the answer is yes only because you choose to, can you create a passionate love and make it last the answer is yes but only because you choose to. here's the kicker the truth is all men can be inspired to be the greatest lover ever given to the woman they love when they are believed in and valued. So the man you are attracted too is probably the very man you are married to, and you are just trying to find an excuse to see if your fellow employer has something that your husband didn't share with you or had the chance to explore that side of you, the ball is in your court but the advice is that the grass is not always greener on the other side,
and would you be cool with it if your husband did the same thing to you? My point is that both side are often guilty of crossing the line from time to time because we are not perfect people, But wouldn't it be nice to hold our self accountable and not blame each other for our own choices? leave the pandora box alone and experience new things with your husband nothing like the first time learning each other by exploring options with your husband that is!

Aishu

April 10, 2014 • by Aishu

Love ur husband

Tisbrown

April 14, 2013 • by Tisbrown

While being oin a relationship try as much as u could to expose every secret to ur spouse in oda to kip gud rltnsp

Advisor

April 3, 2013 • by Advisor

It seems like you need to do these three things to get your mind off your colleague and back on your awesome husband
1) distance yourself from this employee after confronting yourself about what happened at the party
2) spent a romantic night with your husband. Dress up, go out, have a terrific night. Kiss him and remember how lucky you are
3) ask God to clear your mind of this other guy because trust me, it will ruin your family if you do this
I hope you can use this, I will pray 4 u

Hassanein

February 22, 2013 • by Hassanein

Hi !
the only thing that i can tell u is to be MUSLIM then am 100% sure that u will stop and u will never think also Insha Allah ........ Try to do then see the result

Sands

February 21, 2013 • by Sands

Don't loose your husbands love over lust! There are so many women out there who wish they had a loving caring husband like yours. Don't throw a good thing like that away. All those years??

Estelle

February 5, 2013 • by Estelle

choose your husband please try to be more romantic again with your husband

True feelings

February 4, 2013 • by True feelings

sister love.

I know that u r going thru a trying time.I just wanna remind u bout da vowels u made,the time invested and the things u stand to lose.i wud advise u as u pray u talk to ur husband,u tel him dat u starting to lose da passion n check within da relationship wat is missing?i mean shud u sleep wit dis man,gues wat u will b da discussion of da work place n it will gat to ur hussby.love n pray 4 u!!

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