I got involved by myself in this mess, but how can I get out now?

by Kay True stories Intimacy 1 comment


I read your stories and I got the courage to ask for your advice, because I don’t know any more what to do.

So that’s my story. I am 27 year old, married for two years, I have normal relationship with my husband, sometimes we understand each other, sometimes we fight, we make compromises, but he is not my biggest love and that’s the problem, he is not very interested in me – where I am and what I do.

I’ve met the other before I got married – we were just friends in a same company, we were travelling, together I thought I was so much in love with him, but he was just friendly kind without a sense of carnal interest from his side.

One day I stopped to stand for a relation, who seemed impossible I got married, but in spite of this we keep on being good friends and meeting sometimes. I can even say that our friendship became stronger during the past two years.

Recently I felt inconsolably, in love with this man. I will play that game I said to myself this time. I arranged to spend two days just the two of us, far from anybody who knows us and with some women finesse we found ourselves in the bed.

In the very sublime moment it comes out that he has problem with erection – there’s not at all such. Anyhow we’ve both done our best to get pleasure, but I am confused. I suspect that his problem is not new. In fact I haven’t heard of any intimate friend of his but he is 45 year old and his last relationship I know about had finished years ago, and the lady got married to somebody else.

I do like this man, but the sex is also very important to me. What am I supposed to do? I need your advice!