He doesn’t even consider kissing me
I am married for two years now and I am already used to the impatience of my husband, every time we go to bed he wants to make wild sex (Ok, not every day, but 3-4 times a week). But after it’s over he totally loses interest in me – he immediately turns to the other side and falls deeply asleep.
He is not as kind as to kiss me, or caress me – he falls asleep in his half of the bed, as if I don’t exist. And this gets from bad to worse for me.
I am asking myself “ Does he need me at all – or he simply needs the sexual satisfaction?”
I bury my head in the pillow and cry silently.
Sometimes he notices that I cry and opens his eyes in surprise – “ Why are you crying now? What is wrong again? “ – and that’s all.
I tried a couple of times to shorten the distance in bed after the sexual act, to show him that I need caress and tenderness.
But nothing worked – “Go to sleep, I am tired, I need to get up early in the morning cause I have an important meeting” – that would be his way of turning down my attempts to show him that I need him after sex.
I don’t know what to do?
I am afraid to tell it straight forward...
I don’t want tenderness that is obtained by begging!